don’t know about you, but for me- if I don’t feel comfortable in what I am wearing- I am focused on it all day long. super annoying. in fact, like most people- I have always struggled with confidence. who hasn’t? especially when it came to identifying my style. guaranteed even Beyoncé has her moments. let’s face it- I don’t care who you are--the old saying of when you look good, you feel good is #bible.  you know you have that one dress you can always count on when you throw it on- it is EVERYTHING.  or that outfit you wore to your besties birthday where you almost felt guilty to upstage the birthday girl? (c’ know that time I’m talking about and you don’t have to feel bad about it!) we have all had those moments- what’s the point? the point is- what I always wanted to know is how I could feel that same LBD confidence in my every day normal life.  how could I build my wardrobe with the purpose of building confidence? so that everyday as I head out the door, all I think about is what I really need to be focused on- whether that’s work or the blog or anything else I might be tackling.  (we have enough to worry about! there isn’t an easy answer to this question, but I can tell you what it starts with. it starts with ensuring that every item in your closet is a ten. Imma let you sit with that one for a minute and we will pick it up next post. xoxo

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